The Solo Ways Journal
Travel essays, solo confidence guides, destination deep-dives, and reflections on the art of walking with intention. Written from the road, for women ready to walk their own way.


I didn't set out to create a framework. I set out to stop crying in airport bathrooms. But after 25 years of solo travel, I realized I'd accidentally developed a practice that changed everything.

Eating alone at a restaurant used to fill me with dread. Now it's one of my favorite things. Here's the exact exercise I use — and teach — to transform solo dining from anxiety to pleasure.

Most travelers rush through the south of France to reach Toulouse or Carcassonne. They're missing one of the most extraordinary medieval cities in Europe — and I'm not sorry they don't know about it.

Fear doesn't go away when you travel solo. It transforms. Here's what I've learned about the difference between fear that protects you and fear that keeps you small.

They came from New York, London, Lagos, and Melbourne. They arrived as strangers and left as something harder to name. Here are their stories.